in response to C4itlin... Oh my goodness...my heart just breaks for her!! I would suggest that she probably is suffering from PTSD considering what she has been through (possibly in addition to other things). If you have the ability (either as self-pay or with insurance), make sure that you get her into therapy and she needs a psychiatrist that specializes in and is board certified in child psychiatry. Don't wait because of her age. The earlier the intervention occurs, the better off she will be. Learn how to research, be her advocate and seek opinions. If she is diagnosed, research the illness, the prescribed meds and options that she may have, especially in the education system. Do not be passive as you are her best shot for a normal, healthy life. Good luck to you both and NEVER underestimate the power of prayer! :)